Reality check

Money moves whether or not anyone agreed to it. This is the difference, and it is the only thing here neither the chain nor the memory could tell you alone.

What actually moved · read from Sui through Tatum

Real transfers on Sui Mainnet. About one in five of the daily job's transfers is written without a decision on purpose, so there is always something here to find — it is the mechanism being shown, not a household mislaying money.
reading the house wallet…

What the memory knows

House balance—
Last top-upwk 5
Decisions through week 629
Unaccounted$113.00

1 charge nobody has named yet

Tell us what they are once and we stop asking. Until then they stay flagged — we would rather bother you than quietly wave something through.
unclassified

standing · subscriptions went from $10.99 to $12.99

2026-09-29. Nobody approved it because nobody is ever asked — which is exactly how a price goes up for a year without anyone noticing.
repriced

$71.00 · fastfood · Tuesday, expected Friday

Under your $18.00 floor, so no rule about amounts would ever have seen it. Only the fact that it happened on the wrong day.
off-rhythm

Structuring · 1

2 requests on 2026-10-07 summing $32.40

Each part sits under your $18.00 floor and the total does not. Worth a conversation rather than an accusation — splitting a shop across two taps is also just what people do.
split

No approval recorded · 2

$74.00 · fastfood

2026-09-30 · recurring · fastfood · house wallet
unapproved

$39.00 · household

2026-10-06 · recurring · household · house wallet
unapproved
Everything above came from comparing two things that disagree. The chain knows money left and nothing about whether anyone agreed; the memory knows what was agreed and nothing about whether it happened.
Week6
drift and unapproved spend